Tuesday, April 29, 2008


i got this e-mail from a friend of mine just now. i thought i'd post it here and tell you a little bit about her. she's in her late sixties and has raised a bunch o'kids
(yes, that what we call them) in a trailer while holding down jobs her whole life as her husband worked in the coal mines. she has a bunch o'grandkids and great-grand kids and they come in shifts on holidays and birthdays because there's not enough room.she's been thru breast cancer and more than her share of heartaches and hard times.(and she's a damn fine cook. just ask the kids)

and as she sent in this e-mail. she's a B.I.T.C.H.

i can only hope to someday be half as bitchy as she is!


When I stand up for
myself and my beliefs,
they call me a

When I stand up for
those I love,
they call me a

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
or do things my own way, they call me a


Being a bitch
means I won't
compromise what's
in my heart.
It means I live my life
MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.

When I refuse to
tolerate injustice and

speak against it, I am
defined as a

The same thing happens when I take time for
myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the
courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I 'should' be.
I am outspoken,
opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me,
try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch ,
so be it.
I embrace the title and
am proud to bear it.
B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything

Send this to 5 women to put a smile on their face: 'If you can't do something right, get a woman to do it..'


  1. jeasus, that ht home! I'm the same age and that was my pair of shoes she walks in, But one day, and I was lucky, because I could get a free educato back in the 80's. I took it and now have a very nice retirement looming and some money in the bank, traveled to India, newfoundland/Labrador with my grandson and am looking forward to sitting on the porch and teaching my Grandaughters to be Btches. Can we get this "lucky for me" help for this generation? Vote Hillary, and "yes we will". Sincerity

  2. sorry bout all the typos, my keyboard needs cleaned!sincerity

  3. i typo like a champ with a clean keyboard. no problem. ; )